Virgin is a term used to describe a person who has not
engaged in sexual intercourse (typically penetrative only), traditionally
describing a female unmarried person or young girl (lat. "virgo,
virginis", as an opposite to "vir" meaning "man" or "husband").
Today I read an article in Cosmo about 35yr old virgins in
Japan. The article talked about how they were not valued and treated like
stupid women!!!.....LOL. Wow!! These women felt like they had to have sex
before being in a with a man. So what they did was hire a sex therapist to find them
someone who would take their virginity. It is sad to see
people glorify premarital-sex.
Any way sex is not being treated the way God intended. People
now just do it for fun. Sex is supposed to be a beautiful thing between husband
and wife and only a husband and wife. In God’s word it lets us know that when
you have sex when you're married your bed is undefiled."Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. (Heb 13:4).
Does anyone want to wait?? Well I do
and I am!!
From talking to unsaved teens and adults I come to realize that
the reason why they have premarital-sex, besides them just being horny and a
bunch of other stuff, is because some have this idea that if they don't do it
before they are married the won't be experienced. Or before they are married
they need to make sure that their opposite can perform......LOL. Well I beg to
differ. I believe that when the time comes for you to be MARRIED there will be
so much anticipation and love between the two of you it will be great, just
wait!!(do ya'll get the point?)
I come to find (right now were I'm at) that when you are
determine to wait you can do it!! It has
been hard at times but I no longer put myself in those situations to make it
hard to move THANK YA GOD!!! I know that when you learn to really take charge
of your flesh and understand Gods great plan for sex you can wait. I believe
many us just deny that we will desire sex. No matter how saved we are as humans
it is natural you just can't allow it to take over you!!! We have to be a
people who will stand up for purity!! For those who aren't the so called virgin
if you are in Christ and you are waiting until you are married, you are made
new!! I have had discussions with people who are in the church and have
experience sex before marriage, to you I say don't place yourselves in
situations where you will fall. Virgin or not we all know sex is good!! If it
wasn't there wouldn't be so much promiscuity among people, Solomon wouldn't had
so many wives , Jacob wouldn't have had so many son's ,and Samson would have
left Delilah alone...LOL. I'm just makin jokes!! But you get my point!!
Also like one more thing, watch what you listen to. Does it
glorify the flesh, does it cause you to be aroused PUT IT AWAY!! Ya'll ain't
stupid you know what I mean . Do I need to write a list? Watch what goes into
your ear gate your eye gate and who you are around!! Plus oral sex is not
excluded from fornication. If God came back while you are in the act he will
leave your stupid behind!!.....
I could go on and on about this topic My God My God My God!!
Maybe my next blog I'll finish it. Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart (2 Ti 2:22)
Till then, I Love You All Be Blessed
Looking back I probably should have never picked up Cosmo I was probably in the hair salon or something lol.... but I was 18 lol
